Looking for Love in all the Wrong Places!

I'm amazed at how many people are looking for love, and they seem to wander to and fro looking for that significant other, whether its the Internet (online-dating) or at a bar or even the friendly hook-up from friends. People seem to be searching everywhere for love as if love seemed lost. First of all, I don't think that love is lost. I for sure don't think that you need to be a bounty hunter either looking for love.

I feel that most people miss true love when it comes along because they seem to have their eyes ever searching elsewhere. Love sometimes comes along so silently like a whisper, no bells, no whistles, just a quiet easiness that just seems to just creep in. Sometimes its just like a warm spring rain gently falling. Just easy, no complications, no hitches, no problems, no drama.

To expound on this a little further, when love comes along its so real that we mistaken its true identity, because we have heard the romantic stories of how love should be, the knight coming on the white horse rescuing the damsel in distress. We all have heard the story and so we run wildly and quickly to embrace this moment of euphoria, to only later find out that what we were running after was a phantom ghost.

I feel that most people want the quick fix, like the quick dinners and the quick thrills. Anything worth having is worth waiting for and worth working for. In desperation and the hope of not being forever loveless, we rush without hesitation and reservation into relationships that are neither satisfying or ordained. Oh yes, I must add God to the equation, because he is the only true substance that can keeps the bonds of matrimony truly together in a world like this, when commitment seems to be a byword.

How about (you) seeking in a place, that makes you feel the most comfortable, that place that seems to be ideally your sanctuary, that place you find joy and peace? More and likely, there is a significant person that seems to also dwelling with you in that place, a friend- yeah I know she or he is just a friend or just a buddy, but we have a great friendship and we do everything together.

More and likely that friend that is right up under your nose that seems to share your hearts passion and desires is probably the one that has a real heart for you, and a real heart of love.

Besides what could be better than marrying your best friend that turns into being your best lover too! Oh my....

Copyright 2009 Candace Chambers-Belida

If I Fall for You will you Catch Me?

Love has everything to do with it!

We all know that falling in love is risky, it's a chance though we are all willing to take, Right?

This mysterious thing about falling in love, that gives all of us this reckless abandon feeling, compels us to rush into the arms of opportunity to fall in love--blindly, quickly and without hesitation or reservation, so why is that?

Easy answer, because it feels so darn good. In simple terms, it's what we're born to do.

To love, to give love, to receive love, to want love --is what we do. There is nothing hard about figuring this one out. The very core of our being and nature desires love and wants love and needs love. We search high and low for the chance to have eternal bliss and happiness, which was birthed in the Garden of Eden with Adam and Eve.

Think about how exciting that must of been, to be in the garden of love as well as to be able to have complete trust, love and faithfulness with someone.

We must agree that something magical and majestic was going on between this connection that Adam and Eve had. Not only were they perfectly fitted for one another, but they also seem to compliment one another.This marital bliss was wonderfully crafted Until...that old serpent and his devious devise to interrupt their marital bliss was infiltrated, the end results --were unbelievable chaos and havoc.

That union, and divine covenant split in two and that oneness that was so beautifully joined was now broken and disjointed. So since then man has been trying to come back to that original place of perfect harmony and union, to fall back again into an exuberance of love and marriage. So do you think it's possible to have this kind of love and commitment today, despite the unfortunate trend of divorce? Absolutely!

Look I know if you fall in love today- fall for that special someone, there is no guarantee that the one you fall for is going to catch you or even fall for you. You may find yourself picking yourself up off the floor as you blindly slip into what you thought was eternal bliss, only to find yourself in the secret place of oblivion or the deepest coma. Where did the love go you ask? So despite the odds that 3 out of 5 relationships end in divorce is there still hope for us (hopeless romantics) that still believe in love and marriage? Absolutely!

What happened to the spirit of commitment and fidelity and love and honor? What happen to marital bliss and harmony and communication? Have we this day and age thrown out all of our heart values to the curb and to the wayside? This is what we are going to explore in this blog site. I believe in Love and the crazy sensation of it all. The euphoric feeling of ecstasy with that first kiss that gives the Goo-Goo-Ga Ga's and the Warm Fuzzies. And if you too believe in faithfulness, love and commitment than this blog is for You.......

Crazy Love!

Copyright 2009 Candace Chambers-Belida