Monday, April 27, 2009

If I Fall for You will you Catch Me?

Love has everything to do with it!

We all know that falling in love is risky, it's a chance though we are all willing to take, Right?

This mysterious thing about falling in love, that gives all of us this reckless abandon feeling, compels us to rush into the arms of opportunity to fall in love--blindly, quickly and without hesitation or reservation, so why is that?

Easy answer, because it feels so darn good. In simple terms, it's what we're born to do.

To love, to give love, to receive love, to want love --is what we do. There is nothing hard about figuring this one out. The very core of our being and nature desires love and wants love and needs love. We search high and low for the chance to have eternal bliss and happiness, which was birthed in the Garden of Eden with Adam and Eve.
Think about how exciting that must of been, to be in the garden of love as well as to be able to have complete trust, love and faithfulness with someone.

We must agree that something magical and majestic was going on between this connection that Adam and Eve had. Not only were they perfectly fitted for one another, but they also seem to compliment one another.This marital bliss was wonderfully crafted Until...that old serpent and his devious devise to interrupt their marital bliss was infiltrated, the end results --were unbelievable chaos and havoc.

That union, and divine covenant split in two and that oneness that was so beautifully joined was now broken and disjointed. So since then man has been trying to come back to that original place of perfect harmony and union, to fall back again into an exuberance of love and marriage. So do you think it's possible to have this kind of love and commitment today, despite the unfortunate trend of divorce? Absolutely!

Look I know if you fall in love today- fall for that special someone, there is no guarantee that the one you fall for is going to catch you or even fall for you. You may find yourself picking yourself up off the floor as you blindly slip into what you thought was eternal bliss, only to find yourself in the secret place of oblivion or the deepest coma. Where did the love go you ask? So despite the odds that 3 out of 5 relationships end in divorce is there still hope for us (hopeless romantics) that still believe in love and marriage? Absolutely!

What happened to the spirit of commitment and fidelity and love and honor? What happen to marital bliss and harmony and communication? Have we this day and age thrown out all of our heart values to the curb and to the wayside? This is what we are going to explore in this blog site. I believe in Love and the crazy sensation of it all. The euphoric feeling of ecstasy with that first kiss that gives the Goo-Goo-Ga Ga's and the Warm Fuzzies. And if you too believe in faithfulness, love and commitment than this blog is for You.......
Crazy Love!
Copyright 2009 Candace Chambers-Belida


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Anonymous said...

I truly believe, only once in your life, you find someone who can completely turn your world around.

You tell them things that you've never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and genuinely want to hear more.

You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you.

When something wonderful happens, you can't wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement.

They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself.

Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.

There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition
but only a quiet calmness when they are around.

You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are.

The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever.

Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it's like being young again. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant.

Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn't exist at all.

A phone call or two during the day helps to get you
through a long day's work and always brings a smile to your face.

In their presence, there's no need for continuous conversation, but you find you're quite content in just having them nearby.

Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you.

You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon.

You open your heart knowing that there's a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible.

You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that's so real it scares you.

You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and
possibly a soul mate that will remain loyal to the end.

Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.

Candace Chambers-Belida said...

I totally agree

Anonymous said...

I think your stats are right... 2 out of 3 marriages end up in divorce. Love ain't enough to marry someone. and marriage is not for everybody.
I think the stats prove it, right?

Anonymous said...

My marriage is Fabulous. It took awhile and lots of prayers, but my hubby and I have a very GOD committed relationship. Our love grows more for each other with each passing day. He's not only my husband but my best friend. I can depend on him for anything. Support, love, a hug, just when I need it most. LOVE is GREAT!! Thanks be to the LORD Jesus Christ.

Candace Chambers-Belida said...

It doesn't get any better than this-Awesome